· Josie, 16, had a great deal of anger toward her parents, performed poorly at
school, and ended up running away from home, and then stayed with friends.
· Night after night, Susan couldn’t sleep in her family’s new home when she
went to bed. She then had a terrible time coping with school the next day, and
seemed to be depressed.
· John was a gang member, and delivered drugs for them. He got caught and
ended up incarcerated for a while. There’s a strong possibility that he’s been
killed by a rival gang by now.
More and more children and youth, like Josie, Susan, and John, are labelled as being
troubled in one way or another. Depression, anxiety, oppositional defiant disorder,
ADHD, and so on.
However, many of these children and youth are actually indigos who are, in part,
reacting to negative in and around them. Indigo children are very intelligent,
intuitive, sensitive and strong-minded.
To clarify, let’s look more closely at the situation of these three youth:
Josie’s father was a manager of a youth treatment centre. Because she was so
sensitive, Josie was greatly affected by the negative energy that her father
unknowingly brought home from work in his energy field - like second hand smoke.
When people are affected by others’ negativity or trauma, this is called secondary or
vicarious trauma. A sensitive person picks up the negativity around them without
realizing it and end up feeling bad - and may then act it out or become anxious or
depressed, without knowing the cause.
Research shows that about 25% of people who work with traumatized individuals
become traumatized themselves over time. People who are more sensitive are more
affected than others. This includes physicians, nurses, psychologists, social workers,
firemen, and so on. Although people who do these types of work might not be
affected themselves, sensitive family members could pick up the negative energy they
bring home from work and become depressed, anxious or have other difficulties,
without knowing why.
Susan had difficulty sleeping because the family had just moved within a city block
from a cemetery. She was affected by the negativity there without being aware of
what was going on for her. In addition, her grandmother had lived through the
holocaust. Research shows that the children of people who’ve been greatly
traumatized often have more difficulty coping with stress than other people.
called historical trauma. None of the other family members appeared to be affected
by these issues because they were less sensitive than Susan.
John, eighteen, was a very sensitive soul who joined a gang of tough youth because
he felt unsafe in the world. He had been bullied when he was younger and was
traumatized by it.
He was afraid of dealing with the pain that he thought would come
with healing the issue, and so he avoided it - preferring to appear very strong and
tough instead. He joined a gang to help him feel safe, even though they and a rival
gang regularly killed each other’s members.Because he was so strong-minded, he
refused to heal his pain and refused to see that he was making very unwise decisions.
John disappeared soon after he got out of jail, Josie and Susan went to see helping
professionals - who labelled and medicated them. As a result, they no longer acted
out, and neither did they feel much of anything else because of the suppressing effect
of the medication - to their detriment.
None of the parents or professionals realized
what was actually causing the difficulties for these indigo children, and so they
weren’t able to help resolve the actual causes of the problems. I was able to help
resolve their issues within a couple of sessions.
Many other people, even if not as sensitive as the youth discussed here, also become
depressed, anxious, or have other difficulties because they’re affected by negativity
such as the ones discussed here. Many then use solutions that make things worse for
them, including using medication, alcohol and drugs, avoiding life by staying glued to
the electronic gizmos, and so on - because they haven’t been able to figure out what
else to do.
The issues the three youths struggled with are actually very easy to help resolve.
Methods from the field of energy psychology, as well as healing visualizations that
stem from Asia are very powerful to assist in healing those types of issues for indigos
and other sensitive souls.
In fact, the U.S. military now makes use of energy
psychology and healing visualizations to help heal the very serious trauma that some
of their soldiers experience.
If you’re a sensitive soul and are affected by negative energy around you, the
following methods will probably be helpful for you. Give them a try for a minute or
· Imagine violet flame going from above to the top of your head and into your
energy field, your aura, about a metre / three feet around you. Burn away
negative energy you pick up from other people.
· Imagine light going in through the crown of your head into every cell in your
body and into your DNA. Imagine negativity from your parents and parents
being burnt away - trauma of various types, including trauma from war, from
the depression in the 30s, etc.
See how you feel. It makes no difference if you can visualize this or not. If it worked
for you, you can cleanse all kinds of layers with healing visualizations and other
methods that can’t be healed with the use traditional Western methods, whether
psychological or medical. Doing so will result in you gradually becoming more full of
If you’re curious about whether you or your child are an indigo or other sensitive soul,
you can fill out a questionnaire on this at http://www.dynamicharmony.com/indiquest/.
You can also read articles about this topic at:
Rémi Thivierge MSW RSW RMFT
Author of “Profound Healing for Indigo Children & Youth… and Other Sensitive Souls”
Thanks to: http://extraterrestrials.ning.com