Free will ?
I rather let them guide me.
HOW I MET MY WIFE.
After having been divorced for 7 years, I made the decision that being alone was no longer what I wanted. So I made the decision to look for a "better half".
And already knowing what I didn't want, I made a long list of what I was looking for in a wife, such as a non smoker, a non drinker etc.
I worked on that list for several days and once my list was to my liking, I picked up the news paper and looked how others had worded their classified ad.
To my surprise, a coincidence happened. Here was a woman looking for a S.O. and she had listed what she wanted in a man. Her list was identical to mine, so I contacted her. We instantly hit it off and a year later we were married. That was 28 years ago and I'm proud to say during those 28 years of marriage, we never had to raise our voices. Although at times we agreed to disagree.
Luck is listening to your Heavenly Helpers.....
They truly do have your best interest in mind.