Don’t Play that Song!
By Hwaa Irfan
How are you doing in the midst of these changes? Thought you grew up,
no longer drugged by the lies used to manipulate us, reduce us down to
our lower passions so that we would remain perpetually distracted from
their games with our lives?
But there it is that test, always lurking, waiting, beckoning to the
lower self, calling it forth to return one’s self to a state of
mindlessness – a perpetual state of deficiency.
Feeling in control, a sense of one’s purpose, you’ve been there, done
that, but there comes that song as you switch on the radio for a little
light entertainment, those songs that provided you with so much
pleasure, and those addictive love songs.
Did you feel it, that twinge somewhere around the heart, but instead
of turning of the radio, you continue to take an addictive shot of
yearning for what will always leave you yearning.
That state of deficiency is what we have become used to, hence why
even we never seem to feel quite satisfied. Many have referred to the
endless love songs as born out of the feeling of being separate. On a
metaphysical level, it is a primal unconscious need to reconnect with
In simple psychological terms Maslow’s hierarchy it is a matter of
basic needs, the same basic needs that our global governors have been
trying t entrain into us without the self actualization:
Is Sternberg’s model closer to the truth?
In our one-sided lives we only possess one piece of the puzzle.
Depending on where we feel deficient in our lives we might be feeling:
A lot of romantic songs are being played at the moment plucking on
that addictive mode, hence a thirst for passion and intimacy to brighten
these murky days of change we are going through, but like a firework,
that soon fizzles out once that basic need is met.
Also a lot of this is being pumped out at the moment by the mind
control music industry – the perpetual quick physical fix, because one
has become incapable with each fix to commit to anything more. We have
been made to believe through the media, sex education and gender issues
of the day that sex without commitment is a right, and because it
gives us s much pleasure, we go with it until the rate of exchange
sexploitation regardless of age has become too high providing the
foundations of dysfunctional self, family life, and society. Yet it is
that commitment to love that makes more out of us and brings us closer
to self actualization transmuting our negative force for a higher force.
- Companiate Love
More and more couples have been moving towards this, but it is on the
cusp of liking and commitment. It is comfortable, for as long as it
lasts, but without commitment each partner is operating at a different
frequency, a different pace of development, and a point comes when the
other will want more, or will want to move on; if not physically, it
will happen psychospiritually.
- Empty Love
At the bottom of the pile we find empty, infatuated love, which
speaks for itself. Far too many have experienced or are experiencing
this which is rooted in the opposite to love, i.e. fear! Unless one is
willing to receive as well as give of the bounties of life, the one
remains safe from the emotional risks and challenges like Neo before he
took the pill of life. Life was never meant for cowards!
It is with Consummate Love where all pieces of the puzzle meet, for Consummate Love is
where everything conjoins – the prime mover throughout the universe,
and throughout all life forms – this is what marriage has been deemed
sacred throughout all religions. For those who argue that marriage is a
false concept, and trace it back to the animal kingdom, they negate
whereas animas have no choice, and are ‘wired’ to their purpose in life,
to the Divine Laws of Nature, humans were bequeathed with that heavy
gift of Choice, a gift that we have handed over to others relinquishing
our purpose in and to life to be left lost, confused and deficient. Even
as the word falls apart around you, you cannot pay your role, able to
love all unconditionally.
If you keep playing that song you will never know what a wonderful life you can have after all!
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Thanks to: http://hwaairfan.wordpress.com