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Transending Self-Importance

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1 Transending Self-Importance on Sun Jul 29, 2012 7:47 am


From Wayne W Dyer:

Here are seven suggestions to help you transcend ingrained ideas of self-importance. All of these are designed to help prevent you from falsely identifying with the self-important ego.

1. Stop being offended.
The behavior of others isn’t a reason to be immobilized. That which offends you only weakens you. If you’re looking for occasions to be offended, you’ll find them at every turn. This is your ego at work convincing you that the world shouldn't be the way it is. But you can become an appreciator of life and match up with the universal Spirit of Creation. You can’t reach the power of intention by being offended. By all means, act to eradicate the horrors of the world, which emanate from massive ego identification, but stay in peace. As A Course in Miracles reminds us: Peace is of God, you who are part of God are not at home except in his peace. Being is of God, you who are part of God are not at home except in his peace. Being offended creates the same destructive energy that offended you in the first place and leads to attack, counterattack, and war.

2. Let go of your need to win.
Ego loves to divide us up into winners and losers. The pursuit of winning is a surefire means to avoid conscious contact with intention. Why? Because ultimately, winning is impossible all of the time. Someone out there will be faster, luckier, younger, stronger, and smarter-and back you’ll go to feeling worthless and insignificant.

You’re not your winnings or your victories. You may enjoy competing, and have fun in a world where winning is everything, but you don’t have to be there in your thoughts. There are no losers in a world where we all share the same energy source. All you can say on a given day is that you performed at a certain level in comparison to the levels of others on that day. But today is another day, with other competitors and new circumstances to consider. You’re still the infinite presence in a body that’s another day (or decade) older. Let go of needing to win by not agreeing that the opposite of winning is losing. That’s ego’s fear. If your body isn’t performing in a winning fashion on this day, it simply doesn’t matter when you aren’t identifying exclusively with your ego. Be the observer, noticing and enjoying it all without needing to win a trophy. Be at peace, and match up with the energy of intention. And ironically, although you’ll hardly notice it, more of those victories will show up in your life as you pursue them less.

3. Let go of your need to be right.
Ego is the source of a lot of conflict and dissension because it pushes you in the direction of making other people wrong. When you’re hostile, you’ve disconnected from the power of intention. The creative Spirit is kind, loving, and receptive; and free of anger, resentment, or bitterness. Letting go of your need to be right in your discussions and relationships is like saying to ego, I’m not a slave to you. I want to embrace kindness, and I reject your need to be right. In fact, I’m going to offer this person a chance to feel better by saying that she’s right, and thank her for pointing me in the direction of truth.

When you let go of the need to be right, you’re able to strengthen your connection to the power of intention. But keep in mind that ego is a determined combatant. I’ve seen people end otherwise beautiful relationships by sticking to their need to be right. I urge you to let go of this ego-driven need to be right by stopping yourself in the middle of an argument and asking yourself, Do I want to be right or be happy? When you choose the happy, loving, spiritual mood, your connection to intention is strengthened. These moments ultimately expand your new connection to the power of intention. The universal Source will begin to collaborate with you in creating the life you were intended to live.

4. Let go of your need to be superior.
True nobility isn’t about being better than someone else. It’s about being better than you used to be. Stay focused on your growth, with a constant awareness that no one on this planet is any better than anyone else. We all emanate from the same creative life force. We all have a mission to realize our intended essence; all that we need to fulfill our destiny is available to us. None of this is possible when you see yourself as superior to others. It’s an old saw, but nonetheless true: we are all equal in the eyes of God. Let go of your need to feel superior by seeing the unfolding of God in everyone. Don’t assess others on the basis of their appearance, achievements, possessions, and other indices of ego. When you project feelings of superiority that’s what you get back, leading to resentments and ultimately hostile feelings. These feelings become the vehicle that takes you farther away from intention. A Course in Miracles addresses this need to be special and superior: Special ness always makes comparisons. It is established by a lack seen in another, and maintained by searching for, and keeping clear in sight, all lacks it can perceive.

5. Let go of your need to have more.
The mantra of ego is more. It’s never satisfied. No matter how much you achieve or acquire, your ego will insist that it isn’t enough. You’ll find yourself in a perpetual state of striving, and eliminate the possibility of ever arriving. Yet in reality you’ve already arrived, and how you choose to use this present moment of your life is your choice. Ironically, when you stop needing more, more of what you desire seems to arrive in your life. Since you’re detached from the need for it, you find it easier to pass it along to others, because you realize how little you need in order to be satisfied and at peace.

The universal Source is content with itself, constantly expanding and creating new life, never trying to hold on to its creations for its own selfish means. It creates and lets go. As you let go of ego’s need to have more, you unify with that Source. You create, attract to yourself, and let it go, never demanding that more come your way. As an appreciator of all that shows up, you learn the powerful lesson St.Francis of Assisi taught:”…it is in giving that we receive.” By allowing abundance to flow to and through you, you match up with your Source and guarantee that this energy will continue to flow.

6. Let go of identifying yourself on the basis of your achievements.
This may be a difficult concept if you think you are your achievements. God writes all the music, God sings all the songs, God builds all the buildings, God is the source of all your achievements. I can hear your ego loudly protesting. Nevertheless, stay tuned to this idea. All emanates from Source! You and that Source are one! You’re not this body and its accomplishments. You are the observer. Notice it all; and be grateful for the abilities you’ve accumulated. But give all the credit to the power of intention, which brought you into existence and which you’re a materialized part of. The less you need to take credit for your achievements and the more connected you stay to the seven faces of intention, the more you’re free to achieve, and the more will show up for you. It’s when you attach yourself to those achievements and believe that you alone are doing all of those things that you leave the peace and the gratitude of your Source.

7. Let go of your reputation.
Your reputation is not located in you. It resides in the minds of others. Therefore, you have no control over it at all. If you speak to 30 people, you will have 30 reputations. Connecting to intention means listening to your heart and conducting yourself based on what your inner voice tells you is your purpose here. If you’re overly concerned with how you’re going to be perceived by everyone, then you’ve disconnected yourself from intention and allowed the opinions of others to guide you. This is your ego at work. It’s an illusion that stands between you and the power of intention. There’s nothing you can’t do, unless you disconnect from the power source and become convinced that your purpose is to prove to others how masterful and superior you are and spend your energy attempting to win a giant reputation among other egos. Do what you do because your inner voice always connected to and grateful to your Source-so directs you. Stay on purpose, detach from outcome, and take responsibility for what does reside in you: your character. Leave your reputation for others to debate; it has nothing to do with you. Or as a book title says: What You Think of Me Is None of My Business!

  I became insane, with long intervals of horrible sanity ~ Edgar Allan Poe

2 Re: Transending Self-Importance on Tue Jul 31, 2012 2:20 pm

New Age Seer

There are many tracks to Self-Realization. Meaning, there are many ways to relieve ourselves from our animal urges – we must learn to live as ‘Spiritual Beings’ and let go of the Body…

The truth is, when we arrive at Self-Realization, as told by the Masters – we don’t let go of anything but rather, we connect with everything.

The wisest and most learned will tell you that when your Love for All Expressions is 100% we transcend the limitations of mind and body and begin to open up into a greater expression that is connected to the Whole.

The interesting part here is that we look at the world very much like builders. We examine ourselves like structures – the foundation, the walls, in internal support structures, the floors, the doors and windows, the utility of rooms, the roof… This is very much akin to accessing the quality of a car by kicking the tires.

We are made up of many parts – but we cannot define ourselves by merely examining and challenging the aspects of our selves – but rather, we must examine internally our motivations behind why we hold onto particular values and habits.

What is the nature of GOD?
What is the nature of Forgiveness?
What is the nature of Unconditionality?

We can examine our levels of judgment and prejudices – and then realize that our prejudice to a particular race is founded on misinformation and fear – but then we stop at that and learn to embrace that particular race – within our capacity – and fall into the belief that we’ve overcome prejudice… When the fact is, we continue to refuse to eat Brussels Sprouts because they taste yucky.

GOD Resides within all things, all molecules, all atoms, all particles… His divine will and love is present in all things and all moments, and expresses it self purely and wholly. Meaning, ALL of GOD resides in a single particle – yet we the individual observe finitehood in that one particle – withdraw and then see the multitude of objects and expressions around us – and comprehend that all objects are assemblies of infinite particles. How then do we consolidate that knowledge that GOD resides in all things in his whole form when we ourselves see plurality?

We must learn to transcend Plurality and experience and express Unity, which is Singularity with all things and this is a fundamental redefining of ourselves and our cosmos around us – one that requires 100% of our focus and commitment, without distractions, without breaks, without excuses… Very few humans have demonstrated that capacity – and we’ve learned to read about them and quote them – because, to be honest, we believe it makes us sound and look learned and recondite.

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3 Re: Transending Self-Importance on Wed Aug 01, 2012 5:50 am


Most profound NAS.

And may I say how refreshing it is to see someone verbalize on this this site again. It was a hub of discussion when it first started in January and some how got lost and became a re- blog place.

I can only speak for myself, but I am willing to try eating Brussels sprouts again. I have always thought that they taste "yucky"! LOL

  I became insane, with long intervals of horrible sanity ~ Edgar Allan Poe

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