Wednesday, November 7th, 2012.
by Soren Dreier
The Matrix conditioning would expect you to feel pain, devastation
and even victimized if your relationship is about to crack. Add a few
teaspoons of hate to that condition, combined with a touch of jealousy
and a sweet sweet sprinkle of vengeance. That would kind of be what we
are programmed to feel right, if our partner wants to disengage.
If it’s you that wants to disengage, you are supposed to feel guilty
by default, and that will often leave you in a zombified state, where
you cannot act, because you feel sorry for your partner. Ah, you’re so
good a lover that you feel your partner’s pain. Really? Could it be the
acquired helplessness kicking in?
So the matrix condition is pretty much: Feel victimized or victimize your partner.
Since the love zapper in the higher altitudes is very much turned on
and pointing to the heart people, they are morphing into what I label a
“Rumi State Of Mind”.
That Rumi State Of Mind is a field that we can tap into. But there’s
a: but. Only if you have felt it, and not taking Rumi in as just pretty
That really goes for most esoteric knowledge, going parrot mode, and
repeating something we don’t understand in depth. We have to embed the
I go a little Deepak Chopra, since I´m addressing Rumi.
Love is quantum mechanics. It´s a vibrant field and I could suppose
Deepak would go: “ Yes love is very interesting, two quantum fields
merging in ecstatic passion”. Deepak´ian for relationships.
Rumi really holds the key to the quantum field of romantic love morphing its way to the inhabitants of Morph City.
When we Morph out of the “Victimizing-double-bind “ hostage
situation, we will actually realize that the only principle in the new
coordinates will be the quantum leap which will trigger the duality of
“The matrix of giving and receiving”.
Duality has to be united, before anything makes sense during this
collective shift, because the shift is transcending boundaries at all
levels. The quantum field uniting the giver and the receiver will slowly
evaporate into: Giving. Yes, the key to The Shift. Cool.
It triggers pure unconditioned giving. And if you use that and you or
your partner has a hard time dealing with it, it makes sense. Because
receiving seems to be so difficult when morphing into that quantum
I mentioned the Givers and the Takers in The Heart People. The Givers
are strangers to receiving, but still supporting the equation: “What
you send out in this world, you will attract”. Or: “Where attention goes
energy flows”. It becomes a spiritual contradiction.
So if you are a giver and wonder: Why the hell isn’t the universe
providing? Well, open your heart, “I´m” coming home! If you’re a giver
and cannot cope with receiving, you are only standing on one leg. So
easily knocked over.
In a “Rumi State of Mind” you want to give and you will attract what
has been seeking you. But never from a non receiving position! You will
have to work on that.
If you open up to it, you can’t dodge it, it’s way too strong. You
can dive in or take the exit. But it will hit you and the impact will go
through eons of time, since it came from the source code within you.
If you’re in this kind of relationship morphing into love
all-inclusive and your lover wants to bail out, you grant that. Because
you are your lover. If you love your partner at that level, you got to
love your partners decisions too, even though you may not like them,
since lover and loved one has: emerged.
Don’t go the low vibrational victimizing state and take your partner
hostage. That obviously is not love. In the matrix it is, with its love
deception software, as mentioned.
The matrix considers love to be a feeling, it is not at this level –
it’s a skill that only wants to give. Well knowing that even the matrix
of giving and receiving has been illuminated, you will still give your
partner that freedom of choice, knowing that if you in anyway limit your
partner from expressing the life force within, for whatever reasons,
mundane or spiritual – you would only limit yourself.
And the Matrix hand rubbing therapist auto response pilot goes: “OH,
what about the children?” Eagerly looking for victimization, since it’s
the only thing that it understands. There’s got to be some bloody
casualties or collateral damage!!
No there’s not- the kids are good, you’re good and your love is good, and it was magnetized so maybe your partner will rebound.
You gave your love, didn’t you. How by any means, could that be painful? Wasn’t it a joy?
Attach, detach or reattach. It’s all experiences, not to be taken
lightly. They are some of the most transforming gifts we will ever
receive. Do it with a wet heart.
“Be the water, not the container.”
See also: Transcending the Love Conditioning in Morph City