Well, the frustration would be tantamount to wanting an Oxygen atom to express itself as Hydrogen. Equally, to wanting an Oxygen Molecule to pair off with two Hydrogen Molecules to express itself as Water – which is a new paradigm.
Oxygen and Hydrogen are two abundant molecules in our atmosphere and only a percentage of them have bonded to become Water.
And yet, do we get angry at them because we are thirsty? Instead, we blame the Heat for our current condition of dehydration… And we seek out the current expression of water, as it is available to us.
Everything expresses itself as they should – it is a cosmic frequency… When we are born, we are individual – and we live in self-exploration for many years until our minds and bodies develop and we mature and pair off with another person – we start a family – at 14 we (typically) have no children – yet at 44, all of our children are grown up and are beginning to have their own families… The paradigm that expresses itself at age 14 is vastly different than that at 44 – and again at 88. But it all expresses from the same, single consciousness...
The Child will become the Adult in due time – based on circumstances and events.
And at 88, as we near the end of our lives – we look back and judge our lives based on our merits and achievements… We deliberate a judgment on whether it was a good life or not a good life…
Some people choose to exit early, because they are unwilling to face the future – to explore the expansion of their current paradigm into a future paradigm… We believe, after all, that our choices are finite and permanent. How then can we evolve beyond this current paradigm – especially with the burden of this paradigm expressing itself as being so great?
Others are forced to exit early because they have arrived at some invisible point in their evolution that pronounced that ‘this is the end.’
In either case, we must surrender to the expression.
We ‘Surrender’ through ‘Love.’
We may love sex, chocolate and a tantalizing book… But these are expression of joy through self-expression. But ‘Love’ is a different description as a whole – ‘Love’ means infinite understanding and infinite patience.
Yet, infinity is within our capacity.
The task then is to learn how to expand (evolve) our capacity to suit all times, all places and all situations.
We cannot be frustrated at the expression – because all expressions are ‘Divine’ in nature. We must simply learn how to ‘see’ beyond the current expression and understand the underlying scope and motivation of all situations, so that we can embrace it with infinite Love.